It can be scary and in your face and appear “too porny” for Adam and Sarah to try out. But I promise you, give this guide a read and you’ll be hunting for that third person (or toy) to try it out on your next date night.
A Sluts Guide to Double Penetration
What is Double Penetration?
Double Penetration or DP often gets bigged up in porn. You click on PornHub and wham bam thank ya mam you’re smacked in the face with people shoving their appendages up both the ass and the vagina at the same time.
Important facts: Double Penetration does not just mean that two people with penises penetrating a person with a vagina in the vagina and ass at the same time. It has a WHOLE HEAP of meanings. There are toys that allow people sans penis to penetrate their partners, you can also interpret DP as one penis, one toy; two things in the same hole, and the ever popular Spit-Roasting (google it, but not on your lunch break, you’ll never look at a trussed up hog roast in the same way again). Amongst a whole other myriad of ways.
Combining the taboo nature of DP with other role-play games or even just as part of your D/s dynamic can be super fun and exciting. It feels like anals naughtier cousin, and goddamn does it make you cum harder than you have ever experienced before.
What does DP feel like and why should I bother?
Well if I haven’t sold it to you enough already, it feels like being completely filled (speaking from a person with a vagina’s perspective). It is a way of exploring different sensations and fun.
It can take part of a D/s roleplay and be a variant of that power exchange, or it can also incorporate other people and help further explore your sluttiness in those ways.
DP can take the form of anything you want; fingers, toys, mouths, butts, vaginas, penises, anything in between.
Ouch, doesn’t it hurt?
Ahhh the age old question, often posed by cis-gender males whom are posed the offer of pegging… but that is another blog in itself.
If you don’t prepare to have something shoved up your ass then yes, it will hurt. But failure to prepare is to prepare to fail so prepare, prepare, prepare. Read on to find out how to do that like a bad ass bitch.
If you take the time to lube up, relax and get comfortable with it then your DP fantasy can soon become an OHHH MYYY GODDD reality.
How to prepare – the three P’s (not penises, no, unless you want to that is…)
1. Plan
Now generally I am not an advocate of getting your tips from porn… HOWEVER it can be a good starting point to work out if DP is something you might like. Think about how you feel when you watch it, listen to it or read about it (check out www.literotica.com) and work out what type of DP you want to experience. If need be, write it down so you can talk about it with whomever may be involved, or you can come back to it at a later date.
Ask yourself some of the following questions:
♥ Do you want to experience it with a partner, by yourself, with multiple partners?
♥ Are you comfortable with anal? Does this need further exploration and understanding first?
♥ What toys (if any) do I want to use? Do I need to make any purchases?
♥ Will this occur with a regular partner(s), or a new partner(s)? If so, are my sexual health checks up to date. Yes it sounds boring but it is so so important.
You may have more questions depending on your own worries, concerns, but also experiences!!
Choose a date that is going to your “DP date”, mark it in the diary, on your calendar and work your way up to it using the ideas within this blog. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, you don’t want to create performance anxiety, and if that happens don’t stress about it!!
If your DP fantasy involved anal penetration, whether you’re an anal virgin or an anal slut check out my guides on prepping that ass for some action!
Anal Sex Hacks for Beginners and Pros
Your ass will thank you – believe me!!!
2. Practice
This is the fun one… self-love, masturbation, wanking. Whatever you wanna call it. Get busy by yourself. The only way you’re going to know what you like/ don’t like/ absolutely never fucking touch me there again or makes me cum like a monsoon is so get some practice in.
But I’ve only got hands / one vagina / a singular penis / an old vibrator where the batteries go dead every five minutes… I hear you cry.
FEAR NOT. Scroll to the end of this article to find out my top sex toys to use for DP, either by yourself or with others…
3. Play
It’s DP-day! It’s time to put all of that preparation and practice together!
Before you get down and dirty, (or tied up and clean, you do you), make sure to read my slut top tips:
If your going for anal, make sure you’ve cleaned up beforehand (check out my above articles!)
ABSOLUTELY decide on a safeword. Even if your DP is going to be as vanilla as that Mr Whippy you had the other day (yes even if you had monkey’s blood on it, it’s still vanilla). Make sure it is something memorable and all parties agree to use it. You can have multiple; one to slow things down/ check in, one to keep going all okay and one to stop immediately. The universally accepted safewords are green, yellow, red (think of traffic lights) – green “go”, yellow “pause”, and red “stop!”.
Make sure you have the full enthusiastic consent of everyone and everything involved. Not sure? Check again. And don’t for the love of god try this with a bit of “dutch courage”. You can’t consent if inebriated and even if you feel a bit less nervous, you’re not going to feel less nervous if you vomit on anyone.
(PSA if you vomit or shit on anyone otherwise, that is fine. Shit happens, move on. Anyone give you shit (I’m sorry) for it? Tell them to F*CK OFF).
Relax, resist the urge to clench up, and enjoy the ride. And have a fabulous fucking time!
How to actually do the deed?
Still not sure about how best to go about double-banging? Read on…
First and foremost, read the above. Make sure everyone is comfortable. If you tighten/ clench, this can impact penetration (either vaginally or anally) and can make the experience uncomfortable. Breathe too – if you pass out from holding your breath that’s not good either!
Lube up. Lots and lots and lots of lube. So much you should feel like you’ve jumped into a bath full of jelly. This can not only just be a helpful tool for penetration but can also help encourage some sensual foreplay. Rub it into your bits, your partners bits, slather it across your favourite toys and vibrators. You horny yet?
If you are using toys, make sure they are the right size and comfortable for you and have a variety of options. Yes you may have managed to fit the 8 inch alien tentacle dildo into your ass on your own, doesn’t mean it will fit now. If it does? Fabulous! If not? Switch it out to a smaller toy and don’t be embarrassed by it.
If you are using a strap-on or harness, make sure it fits correctly beforehand. Nothing ruins the mood than a limp dildo (honestly, take it from me).
Penis-owners, don’t get upset if your partner(s) can’t fit your member inside them right now. In fact ANYONE, if you cannot do it for one reason or another, don’t stress. Accept, learn, LAUGH and keep trying. God loves a trier.
But… I don’t have a partner?
Stay calm, superman is here! Well not quite superman but… super-dildo!
Here are my top 4 dildos and vibrators that you can use all on your lonesome or on a partner with a vagina!!
This one has a remote control separate to the toy itself which means its super fun to use on yourself or hand over control to someone else…
If you want a more realistic feeling, and enjoy your dildos to not vibrate this one is the one for you. It’s also super versatile as it has a suction cup attached. Shower, anyone?
Ruse Silicone Slim Double Dong
This one is great as it’s bendy and manoeuvrable. Don’t let its size put you off…
This is my number one self-DP tool for people with vaginas! Double penetration, with clit stimulation. Excuse me a minute…
Stay tuned for the next blog on gangbangs, orgies and enjoying DP with multiple partners!
Xoxo Serena
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