The Sanctity of Non-Monogamy

MissoulaMan62

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As far as my personal experience goes, I have sworn to myself numerous times I would never again put myself in a position to suffer monogamy. Then, I would do so. Inevitably, these relationships have failed. As I write this, I am less than a week from my fifty eighth birthday, and far too old to endure another. I would rather spend the rest of my life sexless than monogamous, though hopefully such an extreme will not be necessary.

I believe monogamy, from the spiritual, to the biological, and to the ethical, is not only unnatural and unhealthy, but also simply wrong. I feel it is rare to be completely in love with another while demanding sexual exclusivity.

I have known, and played with, couples who began fucking in their mid-teens, and included others in their sex life from the beginning. I have also been in the same situation with couples who did not enter the lifestyle until the nest was empty. Uniformly, those in the latter category were somewhat regretful they waited so long. It has also been my experience that the ladies are the ones who feel particularly awakened.

Some years ago, I experienced this manifested in a particularly dynamic, and beautiful, fashion. I was at a swinger’s club, in my hometown of Columbus, Ohio. I was approached by a lady who was just glowing with spiritual and sexual ecstacy. As she dragged me atop her, she explained her husband had, for some time, expressed an interest in swinging. I had the good fortune to attend on their first night. She told me the first time a stranger’s cock just began sliding into her, she came. That evening, she prowled around the club, fucking every man in attendance, and cumming many times.

This is how the great majority of couples enter the swinging lifestyle–through open and loving communication, combined with the knowledge that one or both parties has an especially powerful sex drive. Often, this is the woman and, naturally, a lady can entertain far more partners in an evening than a man, which becomes more true over time.

When one spouse, generally the man, compels the other into multi-partner sex, this is virtually certain to lead to disaster, and probably divorce. Unfortunately, a man like this does not broach the subject from a posture of love and respect–desiring to see his wife enjoy an enhanced sex life–it comes from his desire to control her, and occurs within the context of a relationship which is abusive in general. He is very easy to recognize, and the swinger ethic would mandate this man be uninvited from future events,

I believe monogamy to be stifling to the entire being. I believe the passionate and unbridled expression of one’s lust, and the gratification of that lust, in a celebratory, group setting, is nurturing and healing to the spirit, mind, and body.

My lust to all,

MissoulaMan62

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Having lived away from my home town of Columbus for decades I have finally returned and hope to find some friends to play with. I own a charming (or maybe rustic), 126 year old, 3 bed, 2 bath house with an outside hot tub.

Once I get organized I will be working on hosting events.

I am 5' 7", 5#, average build, with long, salt and pepper brown hair, heterosexual and sapiosexual.

I am fully vaccinated with Moderna, D&D free, and TAN with paperwork.

I would like to meet ladies and groups for sex. I have been of many men in creampie gang bangs, and would love to be involved with a group of people who will video our sex and post it online on porn sites.

I hope to meet a compatible married or single lady for a long-term relationship, who is dedicated to non-monogamy, and loves bareback, creampie gangbang. I am polyamorous.

I am extremely oral, very focused on the lady's pleasure, and love to cuddle.

I also love women's feet.

I see monogamy as an illness, or at least a symptom. I view it as a weapon of the patriarchy to minimize the enjoyment of life, especially that of women, and continue their hegemony on the influence in our society.

In addition to my love of sex, I am also an inveterate nerd. I am a huge fan of the science fiction, fantasy, and horror genres through books, art, film and television. I am very into pencil and paper role playing games, as well as board games and chess. (If you love winning at board games and chess, I'm your man.)

I am an armchair military historian, love NFL and college football, and Major League Baseball. My NFL teams are the Cincinnati Bengals and the Green Bay Packers. My MLB team is the Cincinnati Reds.

I love to cook and enjoy the foods of virtually all cultures, I despise plastic, I recycle, I love the outdoors, and am a decades long practitioner of traditional Okinawan Goju Ryu Karate Do.

Thank you,

I make brief annual trips to:

Great Falls, Montana;
Spokane, Washington;
Seattle, Washington,
Pasco, Washington, and;
Portland, Oregon.

My lust to all,

MissoulaMan62.

== Results from bdsmtest ==
100%  Exhibitionist 
100%  Voyeur 
100%  Non-monogamist 
100%  Swinger 
92%  Experimentalist 
70%  Cuckold / Cuckqueen 
53%  Primal (Hunter) 
49%  Degrader 
47%  Daddy/Mommy 
41%  Primal (Prey) 
41%  Degradee 
36.5%  Sadist 
35%  Vanilla 
30%  Rigger 
30%  Masochist 
29.5%  Dominant 
28%  Owner 
27.5%  Brat Tamer 
26%  Ageplayer 
15%  Master/Mistress 
11%  Pet 
4%  Submissive 
4%  Switch 
2%  Brat 
1%  Rope Bunny 
1%  Girl/Boy 
1%  Slave 
0%  Findomme 
0%  Pay Pig 

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@peepso_user_861(Melisa Loza)
fortunately I learned this from my first relationship