MissoulaMan62
As far as my personal experience goes, I have sworn to myself numerous times I would never again put myself in a position to suffer monogamy. Then, I would do so. Inevitably, these relationships have failed. As I write this, I am less than a week from my fifty eighth birthday, and far too old to endure another. I would rather spend the rest of my life sexless than monogamous, though hopefully such an extreme will not be necessary.
I believe monogamy, from the spiritual, to the biological, and to the ethical, is not only unnatural and unhealthy, but also simply wrong. I feel it is rare to be completely in love with another while demanding sexual exclusivity.
I have known, and played with, couples who began fucking in their mid-teens, and included others in their sex life from the beginning. I have also been in the same situation with couples who did not enter the lifestyle until the nest was empty. Uniformly, those in the latter category were somewhat regretful they waited so long. It has also been my experience that the ladies are the ones who feel particularly awakened.
Some years ago, I experienced this manifested in a particularly dynamic, and beautiful, fashion. I was at a swinger’s club, in my hometown of Columbus, Ohio. I was approached by a lady who was just glowing with spiritual and sexual ecstacy. As she dragged me atop her, she explained her husband had, for some time, expressed an interest in swinging. I had the good fortune to attend on their first night. She told me the first time a stranger’s cock just began sliding into her, she came. That evening, she prowled around the club, fucking every man in attendance, and cumming many times.
This is how the great majority of couples enter the swinging lifestyle–through open and loving communication, combined with the knowledge that one or both parties has an especially powerful sex drive. Often, this is the woman and, naturally, a lady can entertain far more partners in an evening than a man, which becomes more true over time.
When one spouse, generally the man, compels the other into multi-partner sex, this is virtually certain to lead to disaster, and probably divorce. Unfortunately, a man like this does not broach the subject from a posture of love and respect–desiring to see his wife enjoy an enhanced sex life–it comes from his desire to control her, and occurs within the context of a relationship which is abusive in general. He is very easy to recognize, and the swinger ethic would mandate this man be uninvited from future events,
I believe monogamy to be stifling to the entire being. I believe the passionate and unbridled expression of one’s lust, and the gratification of that lust, in a celebratory, group setting, is nurturing and healing to the spirit, mind, and body.
My lust to all,
MissoulaMan62
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